
I heard from my friend Doug Thomas today. We went to high school together. This e-mail came from Shantel Matagi, to Cade Meier to Doug to me, we all went Cyprus High in Magna, Utah. It was about another pair of classmates Julie Johnson and Brandon Stout who are now married and the parents of four children. Julie is in the last stages of cancer. I knew she was sick. I had seen her in church while visiting my sister in laws ward for a baby blessing. She was wearing a wig that was a very dark color and I leaned over to JP (who, if you didn't know, also went to Cyprus) because I could not figure out who she was. She gave the most beautiful testimony that day. You could tell she was struggling with the words (she has a brain tumor) but what she said was simple a concise....
"I love my husband Brandon and my children" and she named each of them. My heart broke then. It is just all so close to the experience with Aubrey and Chris my cousin. A young mother in her prime, smart beyond normal capabilities, dying of cancer.
So this e-mail was a request for help. I volunteered and then asked what else was being done. Was someone giving her a party to celebrate her life, was their any type of silent auction or dinner planned? No...at least not until now.
I have a show the same weekend as all of these events. But when I talked to JP I told him I could not just say no and walk away. It was to familiar, to heart breaking, and I had to be involved. If it was us I would want my friends to stand up and help. So I am now in the throws of planning a spaghetti dinner and desert auction for Friday May 1st.
I am not writing about this to talk about what I am doing. It is really to brag about my class and my school. When Aubrey was sick her class rallied around her performing service (oh yea she was a Cyprus chickie too) and throwing parties. We in turn are rallying around our classmates in their time of need. Some of us have not talked for years, and we live all over, but together we stand. I am happy to be associated with these people and glad they are my friends.